When a senior leader assumes you don't use AI
The Move
Use the communal-brag formula to make your AI fluency visible without triggering defensiveness.
The Script
"Actually, I've been using AI pretty extensively for [specific use case]. What's been most interesting is the judgment calls — knowing when the AI output needs a complete rewrite versus when it's a strong starting point. I've found [specific insight]. Happy to share what's working."
Your AI Prompt
A senior leader just assumed I don't use AI. Draft a 3-sentence response that: (1) corrects the assumption matter-of-factly, (2) demonstrates my AI fluency with a specific example, (3) offers to share insights. Use the communal-brag formula: frame it as something I've learned that could help others. No defensiveness, no over-explaining.
Why This Works
The Chief × Harris Poll (2026) found 80% of senior women leaders are playing active strategic roles in AI — but the "women are behind" narrative persists. Rudman (1998) showed self-promotion penalties are reduced when framed as sharing useful knowledge. This script corrects the record and positions you as a resource, not a braggart.
Research Behind This Move
Beyond Speed: How Women Leaders Are Defining the Human-Agentic Workforce
Chief & The Harris Poll · Chief · April 7, 2026
Self-Promotion as a Risk Factor for Women
Rudman · Journal of Personality and Social Psychology · 1998